I am a wife, mom, step mom and slightly obsessed dog mom. I have been married for over a decade to an amazing man.
But our marriage almost fell apart after only 2 years of being together. We were disconnected, often fighting and blaming one another. I was incredibly insecure and felt lost as a wife and as a woman. We knew we had deep love for one another, yet we came to the brink of divorce and situation that felt completely impossible to resolve or heal. We have truly gone through hell and back and not only survived - we have become the most authentic and connected versions of ourselves and our marriage has never been stronger. It's always far from perfect....AND we wouldn't have it any other way!
But despite this wonderful transformation story - this has nothing to do with my marriage....you see....this massive change did not happen as a result of couple's therapy, promises or vows, pleading that my husband changes or any other marriage "hacks".
It was initially inspired by what my soulmate dog taught me (story for another day!) and it was a natural outcome of focusing on my own transformation and healing. Of showing up in my marriage as the best version of me.